triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
Yeah I haven't seen a Jersey thread lately...just moved here for college and am looking for people to hang out with. Who else is from this area?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
NE jersey/NYC area
- Thread starter triple_ultima
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
Seton Hall, in south orange.
Pap
Don Juan
Email [email protected] and request to join the NYC Lair to meet up with wings in your area. Just say that Papa sent you.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
KnightRyder
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NY/Nj area I goto the city a lot but I am from the rockland and bergen area. I'm a 24 yo dude with a nice car hehe. Anyone looking for a wing hit me up.
BrooklynZoo
New Member
Wassup I'm down here in Central Jersey where the excitement never stops
Chris Dash
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I'm on Staten Island. Get me off this rock.
91redrotary
Don Juan
Queens Dj here.
Queens here Rosedale to be exact.
Clubbin every weekend. Definetly wouldn't mind a wingman. Sometimes my cousin backs out on me
Queens here Rosedale to be exact.
Clubbin every weekend. Definetly wouldn't mind a wingman. Sometimes my cousin backs out on me