triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
Yeah I haven't seen a Jersey thread lately...just moved here for college and am looking for people to hang out with. Who else is from this area?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
NE jersey/NYC area
- Thread starter triple_ultima
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
Seton Hall, in south orange.
Pap
Don Juan
Email [email protected] and request to join the NYC Lair to meet up with wings in your area. Just say that Papa sent you.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
KnightRyder
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NY/Nj area I goto the city a lot but I am from the rockland and bergen area. I'm a 24 yo dude with a nice car hehe. Anyone looking for a wing hit me up.
BrooklynZoo
New Member
Wassup I'm down here in Central Jersey where the excitement never stops
Chris Dash
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I'm on Staten Island. Get me off this rock.
91redrotary
Don Juan
Queens Dj here.
Queens here Rosedale to be exact.
Clubbin every weekend. Definetly wouldn't mind a wingman. Sometimes my cousin backs out on me
Queens here Rosedale to be exact.
Clubbin every weekend. Definetly wouldn't mind a wingman. Sometimes my cousin backs out on me