resilient
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
NC for 6 weeks, ready to be over this shyt person
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
Yes, I think the great tragedy of modern/ protestant thought is its divorce of the mind from the body. The mind is the body, and vice-versa, and so something like sex has a powerful imprint on us.
stovepipe
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It's deeper than that. Sh!t is on a spiritual level that can, and most likely leave you with random lifelong thoughts of them or even worse, it consumes you.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
As long as you find something else to do, this past trauma can and will fade into the rear. It won't be as overpowering as when you dealt with it daily.
Yes the mind,body are important,but the most important aspect of a person is the spirit.I believe if you are not right with God then the whole person will suffer that is mind,body and spirit.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
The best way to forgive.... (I can never forget) ...is to keep your short term memory filled with things other than her...that way, if she CREEPS back in...you'll have things to fill in the void.
It takes 'self-control'...which is a supernatural force...
some people have it, some don't.
It takes 'self-control'...which is a supernatural force...
some people have it, some don't.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
Some of you sound fūcking stupid in this thread.
You wanna know another name for 'lovebombing'? It's called the Honeymoon phase and lasts 6 months to a year.
Just because a woman called you awesome at the beginning of the relationship doesn't mean she had a mental illness.
Like I say everytime the WebMD armchair pyschiatrists come out the woodwork, BPD & Cluster mental disorders are rare. Statistically, it's more likely the relationship didn't work because they were incompatible, not because she was crazy.
Googling BPD symptoms does not make you a licensed pychiatrist.
That's was just my response to all this broscience people are throwing you way OP. You already got great advice on how to move on. Sounds like you are well on your way.
You wanna know another name for 'lovebombing'? It's called the Honeymoon phase and lasts 6 months to a year.
Just because a woman called you awesome at the beginning of the relationship doesn't mean she had a mental illness.
Like I say everytime the WebMD armchair pyschiatrists come out the woodwork, BPD & Cluster mental disorders are rare. Statistically, it's more likely the relationship didn't work because they were incompatible, not because she was crazy.
Googling BPD symptoms does not make you a licensed pychiatrist.
That's was just my response to all this broscience people are throwing you way OP. You already got great advice on how to move on. Sounds like you are well on your way.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
It's easy if you have some GOOD puzzy that likes you and is decent to you, the last thing you will be thinking about is the female that did you dirty.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Some of their BS games on the way out WHERE crazy. It is craziness.
I'm starting to think this is the case, or that something just broke in my brain lol. I'm going on OLD and meeting some interesting women, but I don't give a f.
I can't remember another time in my life when I just didn't want to deal with any women.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I hear ya bro..... I've been dealing with women for 27 years...they really are more trouble than they are worth,if they didn't have a pvssy I wouldn't even acknowledge their existence.
I think I'm just going to bail and go monk mode for awhile man. Seems like I need some time away after this chick.
Focus on self improvement and the next girl will love you more.
Tonight my date went on and on about how my skin was glowing. She could not take her eyes off me. We had comfortable silences, sometimes while holding eye contact, other times while just looking around the restaurant. Next up: 1950's summer dress photo shoot.
We only want to go back to our ex when we got out of shape and we think she'll put up with us. Something about being satisfied makes us chubby.
Tonight my date went on and on about how my skin was glowing. She could not take her eyes off me. We had comfortable silences, sometimes while holding eye contact, other times while just looking around the restaurant. Next up: 1950's summer dress photo shoot.
We only want to go back to our ex when we got out of shape and we think she'll put up with us. Something about being satisfied makes us chubby.