“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NC for 6 weeks, ready to be over this shyt person

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Soul ties are REAL...the Holy Bible talks about man and woman "becoming one flesh" you are actually one with her...that's why they hoover because they feel the soul tie as well..they can't help it.I believe the only real way to "break" a soul tie is to repent,but that is another topic entirely.
Yes, I think the great tragedy of modern/ protestant thought is its divorce of the mind from the body. The mind is the body, and vice-versa, and so something like sex has a powerful imprint on us.
 

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After time of no contact those unused connections get weaker and diminishes.
It's deeper than that. Sh!t is on a spiritual level that can, and most likely leave you with random lifelong thoughts of them or even worse, it consumes you.
 

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It's deeper than that. Sh!t is on a spiritual level that can, and most likely leave you with random lifelong thoughts of them or even worse, it consumes you.
As long as you find something else to do, this past trauma can and will fade into the rear. It won't be as overpowering as when you dealt with it daily.
 

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Yes, I think the great tragedy of modern/ protestant thought is its divorce of the mind from the body. The mind is the body, and vice-versa, and so something like sex has a powerful imprint on us.
Yes the mind,body are important,but the most important aspect of a person is the spirit.I believe if you are not right with God then the whole person will suffer that is mind,body and spirit.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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The best way to forgive.... (I can never forget) ...is to keep your short term memory filled with things other than her...that way, if she CREEPS back in...you'll have things to fill in the void.

It takes 'self-control'...which is a supernatural force...

some people have it, some don't.
 

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Some of you sound fūcking stupid in this thread.

You wanna know another name for 'lovebombing'? It's called the Honeymoon phase and lasts 6 months to a year.

Just because a woman called you awesome at the beginning of the relationship doesn't mean she had a mental illness.

Like I say everytime the WebMD armchair pyschiatrists come out the woodwork, BPD & Cluster mental disorders are rare. Statistically, it's more likely the relationship didn't work because they were incompatible, not because she was crazy.

Googling BPD symptoms does not make you a licensed pychiatrist.

That's was just my response to all this broscience people are throwing you way OP. You already got great advice on how to move on. Sounds like you are well on your way.
 

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The best way to forgive.... (I can never forget) ...is to keep your short term memory filled with things other than her...that way, if she CREEPS back in...you'll have things to fill in the void.

It takes 'self-control'...which is a supernatural force...

some people have it, some don't.
It's easy if you have some GOOD puzzy that likes you and is decent to you, the last thing you will be thinking about is the female that did you dirty.
 

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Some of you sound fūcking stupid in this thread.

You wanna know another name for 'lovebombing'? It's called the Honeymoon phase and lasts 6 months to a year.

Just because a woman called you awesome at the beginning of the relationship doesn't mean she had a mental illness.

Like I say everytime the WebMD armchair pyschiatrists come out the woodwork, BPD & Cluster mental disorders are rare. Statistically, it's more likely the relationship didn't work because they were incompatible, not because she was crazy.

Googling BPD symptoms does not make you a licensed pychiatrist.

That's was just my response to all this broscience people are throwing you way OP. You already got great advice on how to move on. Sounds like you are well on your way.
Some of their BS games on the way out WHERE crazy. It is craziness.
 

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Yeah but this boxer got knocked the fvck out and has a severe concussion,and must heal because the next blow could be deadly.
I'm starting to think this is the case, or that something just broke in my brain lol. I'm going on OLD and meeting some interesting women, but I don't give a f.

I can't remember another time in my life when I just didn't want to deal with any women.
 

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I'm starting to think this is the case, or that something just broke in my brain lol. I'm going on OLD and meeting some interesting women, but I don't give a f.

I can't remember another time in my life when I just didn't want to deal with any women.
I hear ya bro..... I've been dealing with women for 27 years...they really are more trouble than they are worth,if they didn't have a pvssy I wouldn't even acknowledge their existence.
 

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I hear ya bro..... I've been dealing with women for 27 years...they really are more trouble than they are worth,if they didn't have a pvssy I wouldn't even acknowledge their existence.
I think I'm just going to bail and go monk mode for awhile man. Seems like I need some time away after this chick.
 

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Focus on self improvement and the next girl will love you more.

Tonight my date went on and on about how my skin was glowing. She could not take her eyes off me. We had comfortable silences, sometimes while holding eye contact, other times while just looking around the restaurant. Next up: 1950's summer dress photo shoot.

We only want to go back to our ex when we got out of shape and we think she'll put up with us. Something about being satisfied makes us chubby.
 
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