Naughty Ninja
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For a limited time only...It's the Ninja man!
http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=24249336
http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=24249336
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Naughty Ninja's Plenty of Fish profile.
- Thread starter Naughty Ninja
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Naughty Ninja
Banned
jhl said:Nice profile. Funny enough but definitely not overdoing it. Good luck!
I changed my headline to: "Charlie Sheen" for the hell of it. The site reminds me of that guy. A mess.
If you're on there spam out the message I made. It works for getting replies.
Naughty Ninja
Banned
jhl said:Nice profile. Funny enough but definitely not overdoing it. Good luck!
I changed my headline to: "Charlie Sheen" for the hell of it. The site reminds me of that guy. A mess.
If you're on there spam out the message I made. It works for getting replies.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mr.Positive
Master Don Juan
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Personally, I think that's a great profile Ninja. Straight to the point, confident, and not one of trying to prove yourself to others.
Right on. Also, props for having the confidence in posting it here. I may make some adjustments to my profile because of your help! I haven't spent much time with mine.
Right on. Also, props for having the confidence in posting it here. I may make some adjustments to my profile because of your help! I haven't spent much time with mine.
Naughty Ninja
Banned
Mr.Positive said:Personally, I think that's a great profile Ninja. Straight to the point, confident, and not one of trying to prove yourself to others.
Right on. Also, props for having the confidence in posting it here. I may make some adjustments to my profile because of your help! I haven't spent much time with mine.
Thanks.
I just put it up for the heck of it. No big deal to me.
Honestly I don't think these chicks read profiles unless you have awesome pictures. Mine were ones I found and threw up at the time. I'm not the type to run around taking pictures of myself when out. I'm too busy running around when I go places for that. If I do I take pictures of sites, etc.
That being said most conversations online only hold longer (no matter what you say to a chick ) if you have at least one pic "showing off the goods". Women will never admit it but that's what they're looking for in who they'll "date" online.
I spam out emails and don't bother reading anyone's profile till after they respond to my initial email. Otherwise it's a complete waste of time.
Chicks online have a "shopping" mentality. Looking for the best "brand" for free. The next best thing is always a mouse click away.
I've tested awhile ago with three pics of a guy I know who would be considered a "ten" in looks. I wrote barely ANYTHING in the profile and sent one sentence B.S. emails to about 75-80 women. All but TWO responded to "me".
No matter what "I" said at the time was "hilarious" and I suddenly was so "interesting". I had IM's being initiated at like three at a time and constant questions from them to prolong conversation. Phne numbers given right away etc. It was ridiculous. I strung them along a bit and never talked sexual even if they continued to hint at it then eventually gave them the old "unread/read deleted bit".
If you have pics (on the beach) and are in good shape they'll respond quicker and keep the convo's going. I need to get some of those pics up. 99% of the women on there are full of it. They're only "sincere" when the person looks "appetizing" enough to meet. Though most will never admit it.
I get my kicks on that site. The hypocrisy is hilarious. Any female who looks good on that site has to have serious issues to not be able to find someone in real life if they don't have several orbiters already. It is what it is though.
As shown in only two of my pictures I have no problems meeting good looking women in real life.
I changed my headline to "Charlie Sheen" because that site reminds me of him. A complete mess.
Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
Very cool profile man.
Only thing I can criticize is that you should get better pics of yourself instead of the handheld camera stuff. You touched on this in your last post. Maybe I'm thinking this because my fiance is a photographer/model and we've both used looks/build to make money in industries where promo pics are important... You're a good looking guy and if you're in top shape you should show it off. I got a fair amount of ass from that site and I wasn't wearing a shirt in any of my pics hahahaha... I just used promo pics of myself and the results were pretty solid... I didn't have very high standards for what I stuck my cack into... I'm a horny mofo who enjoyed sexual variety. Its weird how much sub-standard ass is available on that site for horny man-*****s like me haha!
Most of the women were way below LTR material, but they were fun to chill with and great to use as practice girls. I did actually meet my fiance off that site though... I had no plans of settling down, she sort of just happened. Helped me to clean up my life.
If you need help touching up pics or just doing a photoshoot contact a local photographer. There's many photographers that do great work.
Keep it up though, I enjoy reading your POF stuff. Its quite fascinating from a social psychological point.
Only thing I can criticize is that you should get better pics of yourself instead of the handheld camera stuff. You touched on this in your last post. Maybe I'm thinking this because my fiance is a photographer/model and we've both used looks/build to make money in industries where promo pics are important... You're a good looking guy and if you're in top shape you should show it off. I got a fair amount of ass from that site and I wasn't wearing a shirt in any of my pics hahahaha... I just used promo pics of myself and the results were pretty solid... I didn't have very high standards for what I stuck my cack into... I'm a horny mofo who enjoyed sexual variety. Its weird how much sub-standard ass is available on that site for horny man-*****s like me haha!
Most of the women were way below LTR material, but they were fun to chill with and great to use as practice girls. I did actually meet my fiance off that site though... I had no plans of settling down, she sort of just happened. Helped me to clean up my life.
If you need help touching up pics or just doing a photoshoot contact a local photographer. There's many photographers that do great work.
Keep it up though, I enjoy reading your POF stuff. Its quite fascinating from a social psychological point.
Naughty Ninja
Banned
Honestly I do that site for kicks. If I meet someone fine. If not that's fine too. I'm not serious about it. I know damn well 95% of those chicks are only good for a c@ck holster and have serious issues. (Very few...very few "seem" decent.) I can read through all the B.S nonsense. No "sane", (good looking especially) woman needs to resort to online dating unless she's dried up the pool in her area or has tons of baggage....which means she's most likely insane.Fuglydude said:Very cool profile man.
Only thing I can criticize is that you should get better pics of yourself instead of the handheld camera stuff. You touched on this in your last post. Maybe I'm thinking this because my fiance is a photographer/model and we've both used looks/build to make money in industries where promo pics are important... You're a good looking guy and if you're in top shape you should show it off. I got a fair amount of ass from that site and I wasn't wearing a shirt in any of my pics hahahaha... I just used promo pics of myself and the results were pretty solid... I didn't have very high standards for what I stuck my cack into... I'm a horny mofo who enjoyed sexual variety. Its weird how much sub-standard ass is available on that site for horny man-*****s like me haha!
Most of the women were way below LTR material, but they were fun to chill with and great to use as practice girls. I did actually meet my fiance off that site though... I had no plans of settling down, she sort of just happened. Helped me to clean up my life.
If you need help touching up pics or just doing a photoshoot contact a local photographer. There's many photographers that do great work.
Keep it up though, I enjoy reading your POF stuff. Its quite fascinating from a social psychological point.
I'd never go to a photographer or professional. I'm not that into online "dating". I use it to "educate" myself in a way. I like to talk to these chicks and play dumb to the game. If I did meet someone who seemed cool I'd meet her and see if she's a cuckoo bird or not but still wouldn't stop meeting people in everyday life. The fact I have that second job in the department store selling women's shoes means I get to meet hot women and work with them almost every other day.
Anytime anyone is around hot chicks all day, you get immune to their looks and see them as a person rather than an object. (Though I wouldn't mind banging all of them. lol)
I just got 8 replies tonight off my "intro" email. Then I go into normal conversation. Some may even be dudes posing as females to see how their "comp" is. People have done that to see how "hot" women get replies..but that should be a given on there. I don't know why dudes complain and not try to test with "model 10 looking guy profiles". theyd see EXACTLY who these chicks respond to.
I've already gotten numbers...but got lazy and haven't called yet.
Too many sweet lil babes to meet in real life to worry about online chicks. But I do the online as a hobby I guess anyway...Haha.