Naughty Ninja
Banned
For a limited time only...It's the Ninja man!
http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=24249336
http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=24249336
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
jhl said:Nice profile. Funny enough but definitely not overdoing it. Good luck!
jhl said:Nice profile. Funny enough but definitely not overdoing it. Good luck!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Mr.Positive said:Personally, I think that's a great profile Ninja. Straight to the point, confident, and not one of trying to prove yourself to others.
Right on. Also, props for having the confidence in posting it here. I may make some adjustments to my profile because of your help! I haven't spent much time with mine.
Honestly I do that site for kicks. If I meet someone fine. If not that's fine too. I'm not serious about it. I know damn well 95% of those chicks are only good for a c@ck holster and have serious issues. (Very few...very few "seem" decent.) I can read through all the B.S nonsense. No "sane", (good looking especially) woman needs to resort to online dating unless she's dried up the pool in her area or has tons of baggage....which means she's most likely insane.Fuglydude said:Very cool profile man.
Only thing I can criticize is that you should get better pics of yourself instead of the handheld camera stuff. You touched on this in your last post. Maybe I'm thinking this because my fiance is a photographer/model and we've both used looks/build to make money in industries where promo pics are important... You're a good looking guy and if you're in top shape you should show it off. I got a fair amount of ass from that site and I wasn't wearing a shirt in any of my pics hahahaha... I just used promo pics of myself and the results were pretty solid... I didn't have very high standards for what I stuck my cack into... I'm a horny mofo who enjoyed sexual variety. Its weird how much sub-standard ass is available on that site for horny man-*****s like me haha!
Most of the women were way below LTR material, but they were fun to chill with and great to use as practice girls. I did actually meet my fiance off that site though... I had no plans of settling down, she sort of just happened. Helped me to clean up my life.
If you need help touching up pics or just doing a photoshoot contact a local photographer. There's many photographers that do great work.
Keep it up though, I enjoy reading your POF stuff. Its quite fascinating from a social psychological point.