Naughty Ninja
Banned
For a limited time only...It's the Ninja man!
http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=24249336
http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=24249336
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
jhl said:Nice profile. Funny enough but definitely not overdoing it. Good luck!
jhl said:Nice profile. Funny enough but definitely not overdoing it. Good luck!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Mr.Positive said:Personally, I think that's a great profile Ninja. Straight to the point, confident, and not one of trying to prove yourself to others.
Right on. Also, props for having the confidence in posting it here. I may make some adjustments to my profile because of your help! I haven't spent much time with mine.
Honestly I do that site for kicks. If I meet someone fine. If not that's fine too. I'm not serious about it. I know damn well 95% of those chicks are only good for a c@ck holster and have serious issues. (Very few...very few "seem" decent.) I can read through all the B.S nonsense. No "sane", (good looking especially) woman needs to resort to online dating unless she's dried up the pool in her area or has tons of baggage....which means she's most likely insane.Fuglydude said:Very cool profile man.
Only thing I can criticize is that you should get better pics of yourself instead of the handheld camera stuff. You touched on this in your last post. Maybe I'm thinking this because my fiance is a photographer/model and we've both used looks/build to make money in industries where promo pics are important... You're a good looking guy and if you're in top shape you should show it off. I got a fair amount of ass from that site and I wasn't wearing a shirt in any of my pics hahahaha... I just used promo pics of myself and the results were pretty solid... I didn't have very high standards for what I stuck my cack into... I'm a horny mofo who enjoyed sexual variety. Its weird how much sub-standard ass is available on that site for horny man-*****s like me haha!
Most of the women were way below LTR material, but they were fun to chill with and great to use as practice girls. I did actually meet my fiance off that site though... I had no plans of settling down, she sort of just happened. Helped me to clean up my life.
If you need help touching up pics or just doing a photoshoot contact a local photographer. There's many photographers that do great work.
Keep it up though, I enjoy reading your POF stuff. Its quite fascinating from a social psychological point.