"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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incognito42

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what happened to him, is he still around?...I have only popped in and out over the last 10 years, but NN deff helped me more than anyone here was just wonderin if there was any insight since I havent been here in a couple years
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ban land.
 

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El Payaso said:
Ban land.
x 3 at least, assuming paranoidkj was him
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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incognito42 said:
what happened to him, is he still around?...I have only popped in and out over the last 10 years, but NN deff helped me more than anyone here was just wonderin if there was any insight since I havent been here in a couple years
I'm here. Just got back from California tonight and re-joined to respond. Got bored with the nonsense on So Suave and had to challenge a few dudes to spice things up. Apparently they couldn't take it.

Regardless the site is boring as hell now that T1ts and Co. are gone. I liked slapping PHM around for a while but now that most are gone or banned it's lost it's fun for me. No need to keep rehashing the same old same old on here.

You improve when you don't take this site seriously nor bother with it much if at all anymore.
 
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Why were you banned? Missed you man!
Not sure. Maybe a mod thought I was trying to "threaten" them by saying I was going to prove "game" means nothing as there's no way to prove a chick doesn't like you already and let's you game her. There's no way to prove the same "game" can or will work for any guy or all guys on any chick or chick's and that it's got nothing to do with a certain chick just being attracted to you or you simply having improved yourself in life.

I see SS as a glorified chat/complaint forum and used it to pass down time. Now seeing as most have left or been banned it's lost its time wasting fun.


Best thing for anyone to do to improve is leave the site for a while or for good or treat it as bsing with dudes over a beer. Taking any of this nonsense seriously will drive dudes to hate chick's or go insane.
 

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NinjaWarrior said:
Taking any of this nonsense seriously will drive dudes to hate chick's or go insane.

It's hard to argue with that statement!
 
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