"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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incognito42

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what happened to him, is he still around?...I have only popped in and out over the last 10 years, but NN deff helped me more than anyone here was just wonderin if there was any insight since I havent been here in a couple years
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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El Payaso

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Ban land.
 

Peaks&Valleys

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El Payaso said:
Ban land.
x 3 at least, assuming paranoidkj was him
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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incognito42 said:
what happened to him, is he still around?...I have only popped in and out over the last 10 years, but NN deff helped me more than anyone here was just wonderin if there was any insight since I havent been here in a couple years
I'm here. Just got back from California tonight and re-joined to respond. Got bored with the nonsense on So Suave and had to challenge a few dudes to spice things up. Apparently they couldn't take it.

Regardless the site is boring as hell now that T1ts and Co. are gone. I liked slapping PHM around for a while but now that most are gone or banned it's lost it's fun for me. No need to keep rehashing the same old same old on here.

You improve when you don't take this site seriously nor bother with it much if at all anymore.
 
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NinjaWarrior

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skinnyguy said:
Why were you banned? Missed you man!
Not sure. Maybe a mod thought I was trying to "threaten" them by saying I was going to prove "game" means nothing as there's no way to prove a chick doesn't like you already and let's you game her. There's no way to prove the same "game" can or will work for any guy or all guys on any chick or chick's and that it's got nothing to do with a certain chick just being attracted to you or you simply having improved yourself in life.

I see SS as a glorified chat/complaint forum and used it to pass down time. Now seeing as most have left or been banned it's lost its time wasting fun.


Best thing for anyone to do to improve is leave the site for a while or for good or treat it as bsing with dudes over a beer. Taking any of this nonsense seriously will drive dudes to hate chick's or go insane.
 

VladPatton

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NinjaWarrior said:
Taking any of this nonsense seriously will drive dudes to hate chick's or go insane.

It's hard to argue with that statement!
 
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