"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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incognito42

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what happened to him, is he still around?...I have only popped in and out over the last 10 years, but NN deff helped me more than anyone here was just wonderin if there was any insight since I havent been here in a couple years
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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El Payaso

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Ban land.
 

Peaks&Valleys

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El Payaso said:
Ban land.
x 3 at least, assuming paranoidkj was him
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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NinjaWarrior

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incognito42 said:
what happened to him, is he still around?...I have only popped in and out over the last 10 years, but NN deff helped me more than anyone here was just wonderin if there was any insight since I havent been here in a couple years
I'm here. Just got back from California tonight and re-joined to respond. Got bored with the nonsense on So Suave and had to challenge a few dudes to spice things up. Apparently they couldn't take it.

Regardless the site is boring as hell now that T1ts and Co. are gone. I liked slapping PHM around for a while but now that most are gone or banned it's lost it's fun for me. No need to keep rehashing the same old same old on here.

You improve when you don't take this site seriously nor bother with it much if at all anymore.
 
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NinjaWarrior

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skinnyguy said:
Why were you banned? Missed you man!
Not sure. Maybe a mod thought I was trying to "threaten" them by saying I was going to prove "game" means nothing as there's no way to prove a chick doesn't like you already and let's you game her. There's no way to prove the same "game" can or will work for any guy or all guys on any chick or chick's and that it's got nothing to do with a certain chick just being attracted to you or you simply having improved yourself in life.

I see SS as a glorified chat/complaint forum and used it to pass down time. Now seeing as most have left or been banned it's lost its time wasting fun.


Best thing for anyone to do to improve is leave the site for a while or for good or treat it as bsing with dudes over a beer. Taking any of this nonsense seriously will drive dudes to hate chick's or go insane.
 

VladPatton

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NinjaWarrior said:
Taking any of this nonsense seriously will drive dudes to hate chick's or go insane.

It's hard to argue with that statement!
 
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