"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Naughty and Nice discussion

marmel75

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One of my favorite holiday discussions is to ask whether a woman has been naughty or nice this year.

What are your favorite things to respond with when they ask what constitutes being naughty or nice?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I like to ask if they are obedient and take direction/follow orders well, or they might get punished

I find more success when quickly establishing dominant and submissive role play even in conversation
 

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I like to ask if they are obedient and take direction/follow orders well, or they might get punished

I find more success when quickly establishing dominant and submissive role play even in conversation
You can do that any time
Thats not a holiday special like OP

Either way i like the subtle sexual connotation of both
 

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I like to ask if they are obedient and take direction/follow orders well, or they might get punished

I find more success when quickly establishing dominant and submissive role play even in conversation
I thought you were depressed and in bed? :)
 

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A grocery store near me had a sign up that asked that question, next to a wine display. It was gone in about a day. Someone was probably offended.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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