"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Naughty and Nice discussion

marmel75

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One of my favorite holiday discussions is to ask whether a woman has been naughty or nice this year.

What are your favorite things to respond with when they ask what constitutes being naughty or nice?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I like to ask if they are obedient and take direction/follow orders well, or they might get punished

I find more success when quickly establishing dominant and submissive role play even in conversation
 

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I like to ask if they are obedient and take direction/follow orders well, or they might get punished

I find more success when quickly establishing dominant and submissive role play even in conversation
You can do that any time
Thats not a holiday special like OP

Either way i like the subtle sexual connotation of both
 

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I like to ask if they are obedient and take direction/follow orders well, or they might get punished

I find more success when quickly establishing dominant and submissive role play even in conversation
I thought you were depressed and in bed? :)
 

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A grocery store near me had a sign up that asked that question, next to a wine display. It was gone in about a day. Someone was probably offended.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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