“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Bvbidd

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How many posters on here are narcissists.. I mean really.. I think a lot of them are. This site kind of affirms any narcissism we may have within us.

I was skimming through the bible once, and then read a page on what narcissism is.. and it was like the same thing.

Narcissists look at the needs of themselves before others and learn to "next" people out of their lives because of a bad early life.

When they hit (late teens/early 20s (most of us are that age)) they affirm themselves with basically the beleifs of this site.

lol I thought that was kinda weird.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sean O

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I always thought of narcissim as being like a rude version of what we believe in here on SoSuave. Like, a narcissist will go as far as to ignore the needs of others, whereas we'll still be courteous (most of us, at least), but still place more importance on our needs, i.e. we live for ourselves, and not for others. That's just my interpretation, though.
 

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Narcissim

Don't let anyone make you think that following your own path and not having others control you is narcissim. When you 'next' a girl, you do it not out of narcissim but because she is not up to your standards.

This is narcissim.
 

Bvbidd

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You just have to have the mindset of "I'm the best there is. I live for myself." because of a traumatic early life, it's used as a defence mech.

We get treated badly by girls, go on here read this.. anytime we actually do read this.. it supports or def mech.. and even if we forget about this site.. it helps those beleives along and by the time we hit our mid 20s were full fledges narcisists.. that's just what I see. Because apparently living for ourselves and not others is a mentally unhealthy trait.

And lol yeah Paris is a narcisist.. it's caused by a bad early life or an early life with high expectations and no authority.

But what I really wonder is.. is this really low self-esteem or is that just jealous pychoanalysts?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Narcissism is recognized by a pattern of grandiosity, exaggerated self-worth, and need for admiration from others.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bvbidd

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Exactly.. but by learning how to get better with girls.. isn't that a result of needing that admiration?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Bvbidd said:
Exactly.. but by learning how to get better with girls.. isn't that a result of needing that admiration?
Yes, if a guy sarges women just to stroke his own ego. It's all about a person's purpose. We all may seek similar outcomes but our goals may be completely different.
 

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I used to get horny by just looking at myself. I don't anymore, but I miss that feeling of feeling so fvcking good. Funny thing, is that when this happens, as well being highs, there are lows... and I didn't have any lows. Well, just normal lows like once a month that last 2 hours, and just give you motivation to go on.
 
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