"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Narcissists

Bvbidd

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How many posters on here are narcissists.. I mean really.. I think a lot of them are. This site kind of affirms any narcissism we may have within us.

I was skimming through the bible once, and then read a page on what narcissism is.. and it was like the same thing.

Narcissists look at the needs of themselves before others and learn to "next" people out of their lives because of a bad early life.

When they hit (late teens/early 20s (most of us are that age)) they affirm themselves with basically the beleifs of this site.

lol I thought that was kinda weird.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sean O

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I always thought of narcissim as being like a rude version of what we believe in here on SoSuave. Like, a narcissist will go as far as to ignore the needs of others, whereas we'll still be courteous (most of us, at least), but still place more importance on our needs, i.e. we live for ourselves, and not for others. That's just my interpretation, though.
 

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Narcissim

Don't let anyone make you think that following your own path and not having others control you is narcissim. When you 'next' a girl, you do it not out of narcissim but because she is not up to your standards.

This is narcissim.
 

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You just have to have the mindset of "I'm the best there is. I live for myself." because of a traumatic early life, it's used as a defence mech.

We get treated badly by girls, go on here read this.. anytime we actually do read this.. it supports or def mech.. and even if we forget about this site.. it helps those beleives along and by the time we hit our mid 20s were full fledges narcisists.. that's just what I see. Because apparently living for ourselves and not others is a mentally unhealthy trait.

And lol yeah Paris is a narcisist.. it's caused by a bad early life or an early life with high expectations and no authority.

But what I really wonder is.. is this really low self-esteem or is that just jealous pychoanalysts?
 

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Narcissism is recognized by a pattern of grandiosity, exaggerated self-worth, and need for admiration from others.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bvbidd

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Exactly.. but by learning how to get better with girls.. isn't that a result of needing that admiration?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Bvbidd said:
Exactly.. but by learning how to get better with girls.. isn't that a result of needing that admiration?
Yes, if a guy sarges women just to stroke his own ego. It's all about a person's purpose. We all may seek similar outcomes but our goals may be completely different.
 

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I used to get horny by just looking at myself. I don't anymore, but I miss that feeling of feeling so fvcking good. Funny thing, is that when this happens, as well being highs, there are lows... and I didn't have any lows. Well, just normal lows like once a month that last 2 hours, and just give you motivation to go on.
 
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