"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dead mans Shoes, the greatest film Hollywood couldnt get their hands on.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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1. The Wind and the Lion
2. Braveheart
3. Darkest Hour
4. Goodfellas
5. The Big Short
 

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Fight Club. It's the only movie I can watch over and over again. Most movies are a one-and-done for me.

Oh, and Batman Darknight with Heath Ledger.
 

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1. The Wind and the Lion
2. Braveheart
3. Darkest Hour
4. Goodfellas
5. The Big Short
Guess I must have stolen Dunkirk from your list since I mentioned it first, lol! That's at least three movies that are based or inspired by True Stories. Molly's Game (2017) or Wolf of Wall Street (2013) didn't make your list?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The movie I've liked best from recent years is Once Upon a Time in Hollywood.
I watched the first 20 minutes of it and planned to watch the rest but that was like a year or two ago. It's currently on netflix-Canada.
 

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Guess I must have stolen Dunkirk from your list since I mentioned it first, lol! That's at least three movies that are based or inspired by True Stories. Molly's Game (2017) or Wolf of Wall Street (2013) didn't make your list?
Lol. I actually loved Molly’s game…but didn’t want to make an extensive list…Of course the original Star Wars too…

Dunkirk was beautifully shot but I liked the way the story was told more through Darkest Hour. I’m a history buff though & have always revered Churchill from this side of the pond…

Merry Christmas Gang & Cheers
 

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Dunkirk was beautifully shot but I liked the way the story was told more through Darkest Hour.
This is getting off topic (not that I care), but I liked the way 1917 was told (different war, I know). The way it follows the protagonists through the trench warfare landscape, the realism, etc.
 

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@BeExcellent and @zekko, they are actually all good war movies. For example, there was this one time, I watched Darkest Hour, but paused it half-way in the movie where I felt the movie was beginning to overlap with the time-line of the Dunkirk movie, then watched Dunkirk, then resumed Darkest Hour and that was like a *wow* realistic war-time re-enactment from both sides in that story.

1917 deals with WW1, and one can argue, so does Fatima (2019) - the Portugal apparition of Mary during WW1 which provided hope to a population in despair because of the extent of the military losses and you had three children lifting the spirits of many small villages around with a story of hope. They really haven't made allot of nice movies re-creating the times and period of WW1 that captured my interest apart from those 2. There have been others, but they have been rather boring (Passchendaele 2008). It's like Hitler and Pearl Harbor makes WW2 have some sort of Hollywood status because of the crazy ideas, advanced time of warfare that was fully used, that is simply seems more sensationally portrayed compared to WW1.

Before 1917, what did we even get recently? WW1, is often portrayed as a backdrop in some romantic movies (ie Frantz (2016), etc... or Christopher Robin's inspiration of Winnie the Poo (Goodbye Christopher Robin 2017), so it was a badly needed movie to at least put WW1 in the cinematic map.
 

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1917 deals with WW1, and one can argue, so does Fatima (2019) - the Portugal apparition of Mary during WW1 which provided hope to a population in despair
That was a good one too.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lol. I actually loved Molly’s game…but didn’t want to make an extensive list…Of course the original Star Wars too…

Dunkirk was beautifully shot but I liked the way the story was told more through Darkest Hour. I’m a history buff though & have always revered Churchill from this side of the pond…

Merry Christmas Gang & Cheers
Molly's Game has made an impression with me because I'm not at the slightest level interested in poker. However, the choice of cast, the way Jessica Chastain brought Molly Bloom to life, made me re-watch this movie multiple times. Normally true-story movies are boring, and I might just only watch it once as a "checklist" (ie it was nominated or awarded for an Oscar/Golden Globe, or it made a watchmojo list or a prolific youtube movie reviewer highly recommended it, etc...) and never see it again since they are usually not fun at all to watch. But Molly's Game is amazing as a solid movie. Another nice movie I can think of based on a true story was Beautiful Mind (2001), that was re-watched on multiple occasions. They come far and few in between.
 

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The Money Masters is a classic documentary and vital for one's education

 

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DJ-related: Vicky Cristina Barcelona, and the old Alfie with Michael Caine.

Anything else: Fight Club, Sin City, Young Frankenstein, Some Like it Hot, Blade Runner and Blade Runner 2049 and Stalker(Russian version). I just don't want to pick one.
 

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Also going to have to shout out Under the Skin and Annihilation.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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To name a few Underworld, Resident Evil. Insidious, The nun.
 

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tie between "the magnificent seven (first version) and Terminator II
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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