"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Name three places besides bars/clubs...

razkay

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Where you have been most successful meeting girls?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Friends house, activity clubs and coffee shops.

You can meet women anywhere at anytime, women are anywhere and everywhere at any given time.

I've had more success out side of the whole bar and club scene.
 

Allurre

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From my experience, the women you MOST want cross path with you most UNEXPECTEDLY.

But if you need three other hot places, the coffee shop, bookstores, and malls.
 

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I know women are everywhere, but I still have an issue with "waiting for the right opportunity" when 9 times out of 10, there won't be any right opportunities. I guess there are only a few situations when approaching a girl would be flat out wrong.
 

Snow Plowman

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What's the real question that your asking?

I've had the most success by meeting women on the street REGARDLESS what time it is. I'm also a big fan of the subway. The thing is if your out and about you can just create moments. The worst is guys going to clubs/bars when they don't even like it.

I've met a chick during a PLAY before. I've had friends who walked up to a chick in her convertible and banged a chick who works at the toll booth when you cross the bridge.

Don't limit yourself nor bitvh out...If you see something go for it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thecurtainfalls

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Friends of friends and parties are still IMO the #1 places to meet the best women both attractiveness/quality wise if you've chosen your social circle well.
 

old married dude

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Sporting events - I've picked a few up at baseball games. If you see some cute girls sitting near you, just chat them up. You're both at a baseball game, so there's a common interest right there.

The mall/stores - Best pickup I had was one time when I was in Sephora looking for some new cologne. I asked this girl her opinion on this cologne I was thinking of buying & we went from there. After a while she told me the scent of that cologne made her panties wet, so you can guess what happened from there. ;)

Outdoor parks - This is a good place to meet active girls who are generally in good shape. When I went to the park, I always took Max with me to be my wingman. Max was my Boxer(dog), and most girls love to talk to you if you have a nice, cute, and friendly dog. Girls would ask to pet him a lot & then I'd work my game. If I was lucky, they were petting me later on. ;)
 
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