"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Name three places besides bars/clubs...
- Thread starter razkay
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Energizer
Guest
You can meet women anywhere at anytime, women are anywhere and everywhere at any given time.
I've had more success out side of the whole bar and club scene.
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
I've had the most success by meeting women on the street REGARDLESS what time it is. I'm also a big fan of the subway. The thing is if your out and about you can just create moments. The worst is guys going to clubs/bars when they don't even like it.
I've met a chick during a PLAY before. I've had friends who walked up to a chick in her convertible and banged a chick who works at the toll booth when you cross the bridge.
Don't limit yourself nor bitvh out...If you see something go for it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
thecurtainfalls
Senior Don Juan
old married dude
Senior Don Juan
The mall/stores - Best pickup I had was one time when I was in Sephora looking for some new cologne. I asked this girl her opinion on this cologne I was thinking of buying & we went from there. After a while she told me the scent of that cologne made her panties wet, so you can guess what happened from there.
Outdoor parks - This is a good place to meet active girls who are generally in good shape. When I went to the park, I always took Max with me to be my wingman. Max was my Boxer(dog), and most girls love to talk to you if you have a nice, cute, and friendly dog. Girls would ask to pet him a lot & then I'd work my game. If I was lucky, they were petting me later on.