"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Name three places besides bars/clubs...

razkay

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Where you have been most successful meeting girls?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Friends house, activity clubs and coffee shops.

You can meet women anywhere at anytime, women are anywhere and everywhere at any given time.

I've had more success out side of the whole bar and club scene.
 

Allurre

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From my experience, the women you MOST want cross path with you most UNEXPECTEDLY.

But if you need three other hot places, the coffee shop, bookstores, and malls.
 

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I know women are everywhere, but I still have an issue with "waiting for the right opportunity" when 9 times out of 10, there won't be any right opportunities. I guess there are only a few situations when approaching a girl would be flat out wrong.
 

Snow Plowman

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What's the real question that your asking?

I've had the most success by meeting women on the street REGARDLESS what time it is. I'm also a big fan of the subway. The thing is if your out and about you can just create moments. The worst is guys going to clubs/bars when they don't even like it.

I've met a chick during a PLAY before. I've had friends who walked up to a chick in her convertible and banged a chick who works at the toll booth when you cross the bridge.

Don't limit yourself nor bitvh out...If you see something go for it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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thecurtainfalls

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Friends of friends and parties are still IMO the #1 places to meet the best women both attractiveness/quality wise if you've chosen your social circle well.
 

old married dude

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Sporting events - I've picked a few up at baseball games. If you see some cute girls sitting near you, just chat them up. You're both at a baseball game, so there's a common interest right there.

The mall/stores - Best pickup I had was one time when I was in Sephora looking for some new cologne. I asked this girl her opinion on this cologne I was thinking of buying & we went from there. After a while she told me the scent of that cologne made her panties wet, so you can guess what happened from there. ;)

Outdoor parks - This is a good place to meet active girls who are generally in good shape. When I went to the park, I always took Max with me to be my wingman. Max was my Boxer(dog), and most girls love to talk to you if you have a nice, cute, and friendly dog. Girls would ask to pet him a lot & then I'd work my game. If I was lucky, they were petting me later on. ;)
 
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