"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Name three places besides bars/clubs...
- Thread starter razkay
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Energizer
Guest
You can meet women anywhere at anytime, women are anywhere and everywhere at any given time.
I've had more success out side of the whole bar and club scene.
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
I've had the most success by meeting women on the street REGARDLESS what time it is. I'm also a big fan of the subway. The thing is if your out and about you can just create moments. The worst is guys going to clubs/bars when they don't even like it.
I've met a chick during a PLAY before. I've had friends who walked up to a chick in her convertible and banged a chick who works at the toll booth when you cross the bridge.
Don't limit yourself nor bitvh out...If you see something go for it.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
thecurtainfalls
Senior Don Juan
old married dude
Senior Don Juan
The mall/stores - Best pickup I had was one time when I was in Sephora looking for some new cologne. I asked this girl her opinion on this cologne I was thinking of buying & we went from there. After a while she told me the scent of that cologne made her panties wet, so you can guess what happened from there.
Outdoor parks - This is a good place to meet active girls who are generally in good shape. When I went to the park, I always took Max with me to be my wingman. Max was my Boxer(dog), and most girls love to talk to you if you have a nice, cute, and friendly dog. Girls would ask to pet him a lot & then I'd work my game. If I was lucky, they were petting me later on.