I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
O.P is looking for the green light to commit rape.Philippe Schlichting said:There is this saying in the community that pickup gave you power.
Name one technique that gives me power over women.
What I mean is: Which technique, ie, what you do or say right now, gives you power over women. The question stems from realizing that women by their sheer existance get attention and sex. I am asking for a technique that offers the same power with the same effort being put in.
I am not asking this for the record, I don't want you to list every useless fact that comes to mind, but to mention something to use against women next time who display their female power against you. For instance it is very easy to be seen as lower value by women. It seems as if they were waiting for something they could see as lower value in you.
Naughty Ninja said:O.P is looking for the green light to commit rape.
LOL:crackup:VladPatton said:He should throw in suicide while he's at it.
We could leave women before and we can do it now. Neither is it a powerful technique nor related to pickup.FinalWay said:The only power we have is to better ourselves , and that includes dropping useless women...what do you wanna do? Win her over? I say fvck that, and screw her best friend lol.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
That doesn't give you power towards women, these are your standards and the best you can expect from a woman is to tell you that she doesn't care about them.pipe007 said:easy!
I love myself! I respect myself! I deserve to have quality women! and quality relationships!
I dont tolerate disrespect!, and I don't settle for anything less than first class behavior toward me.
This backfires directly to you as it shows that my question forced you to reevaluate your understanding of pickup as a power tool and that made you realize some uncomfortable truths, which you want to conceal by writing what you wrote.Naughty Ninja said:O.P is looking for the green light to commit rape.
Suicide gives you no power over women. But try it, nobody will miss you.VladPatton said:He should throw in suicide while he's at it.
that made me lol for a bit.Philippe Schlichting said:Suicide gives you no power over women. But try it, nobody will miss you.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Philippe Schlichting said:This backfires directly to you as it shows that my question forced you to reevaluate your understanding of pickup as a power tool and that made you realize some uncomfortable truths, which you want to conceal by writing what you wrote.
You're the only "power tool" around here.Philippe Schlichting said:This backfires directly to you as it shows that my question forced you to reevaluate your understanding of pickup as a power tool and that made you realize some uncomfortable truths, which you want to conceal by writing what you wrote.
Bingo. Everyone talks about indifference being the magic bullet when I think its having an air of indifference. A few of my friends claim to be indifferent in their situation, but I see them trying to maintain some communication before they get the women they are after. say one thing, do another. Its the same with folks here who claim indifference is going to be the final solution.PlayHer Man said:This is a half-truth. "Indifference" does not give you power over a woman. It just keeps her from having power over you.
I agree with you. You can be indifferent all day long, but if you're not high value or if she doesn't have some interest in you, she isn't going to care, or probably even notice (unless she's an extreme AW).Mike32ct said:I think indifference is good but overrated as a technique for most guys. With all her options today, indifference only works for very high value men.
I'm not saying one should ever be needy. But expecting that an average guy would get laid from indifference? I doubt it.
PlayHerMan is also correct. It's more for you than her.
I'd love to hear Zekko's thoughts on this one.
As for the OP's question, I'm a little confused about what kind of situation he is describing when he talks about "displaying her female power against you". Could be taken a few different ways."Indifference" does not give you power over a woman. It just keeps her from having power over you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.