SELF-MASTERY
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
N vs N why can't they say it video.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
wunnaBsmooth
Don Juan
Omg!
That was rediculous! And shows exactly how far the P.C. game has gone in America!
That was rediculous! And shows exactly how far the P.C. game has gone in America!
LoL...too funny. Me being an black american, I too am guilty of dropping the N bomb a lot. Mainly when I'm talking to friends. I'm pretty sure the kid who complained used the N word himself. But yea its a double standard. If I heard a white person use the word I'd be ready to fight them. But if a black or hispanic person said it I wouldn't think twice about it. Thats just the way it is though. Life isn't always fair....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
My question is why is there a big debate over why whites folks should be able to say it? Why do some of them want to use it so bad?
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Master Don Juan
LOL quality journalism right there 
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.StrangeButTrue
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ROFL. "I usually place the H at the end to emphasize the 'aaah'."
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
So if a black teacher ever uses the term "white boy", just for once, does he deserve to be suspended or even lose his job, as it's suggested by the black highschool kid for his teacher?
See how ridiculous it is when things are turned around?:cuss:
See how ridiculous it is when things are turned around?:cuss:
Yes, he does.Le Parisien said:
Ridiculously racist.
Unless you're suggesting black on white racism is alright.
We'll never know what actually took place between them. The only way I can see this being acceptable would be if the student called his teacher "nigga" and the teacher replied back sarcastically.