SELF-MASTERY
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
N vs N why can't they say it video.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
wunnaBsmooth
Don Juan
Omg!
That was rediculous! And shows exactly how far the P.C. game has gone in America!
That was rediculous! And shows exactly how far the P.C. game has gone in America!
LoL...too funny. Me being an black american, I too am guilty of dropping the N bomb a lot. Mainly when I'm talking to friends. I'm pretty sure the kid who complained used the N word himself. But yea its a double standard. If I heard a white person use the word I'd be ready to fight them. But if a black or hispanic person said it I wouldn't think twice about it. Thats just the way it is though. Life isn't always fair....
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
My question is why is there a big debate over why whites folks should be able to say it? Why do some of them want to use it so bad?
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Master Don Juan
LOL quality journalism right there 
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ROFL. "I usually place the H at the end to emphasize the 'aaah'."
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
So if a black teacher ever uses the term "white boy", just for once, does he deserve to be suspended or even lose his job, as it's suggested by the black highschool kid for his teacher?
See how ridiculous it is when things are turned around?:cuss:
See how ridiculous it is when things are turned around?:cuss:
Yes, he does.Le Parisien said:
Ridiculously racist.
Unless you're suggesting black on white racism is alright.
We'll never know what actually took place between them. The only way I can see this being acceptable would be if the student called his teacher "nigga" and the teacher replied back sarcastically.