SELF-MASTERY
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
N vs N why can't they say it video.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
wunnaBsmooth
Don Juan
Omg!
That was rediculous! And shows exactly how far the P.C. game has gone in America!
That was rediculous! And shows exactly how far the P.C. game has gone in America!
LoL...too funny. Me being an black american, I too am guilty of dropping the N bomb a lot. Mainly when I'm talking to friends. I'm pretty sure the kid who complained used the N word himself. But yea its a double standard. If I heard a white person use the word I'd be ready to fight them. But if a black or hispanic person said it I wouldn't think twice about it. Thats just the way it is though. Life isn't always fair....
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
My question is why is there a big debate over why whites folks should be able to say it? Why do some of them want to use it so bad?
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Master Don Juan
LOL quality journalism right there 
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.StrangeButTrue
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ROFL. "I usually place the H at the end to emphasize the 'aaah'."
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
So if a black teacher ever uses the term "white boy", just for once, does he deserve to be suspended or even lose his job, as it's suggested by the black highschool kid for his teacher?
See how ridiculous it is when things are turned around?:cuss:
See how ridiculous it is when things are turned around?:cuss:
Yes, he does.Le Parisien said:
Ridiculously racist.
Unless you're suggesting black on white racism is alright.
We'll never know what actually took place between them. The only way I can see this being acceptable would be if the student called his teacher "nigga" and the teacher replied back sarcastically.