SELF-MASTERY
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
N vs N why can't they say it video.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
wunnaBsmooth
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Omg!
That was rediculous! And shows exactly how far the P.C. game has gone in America!
That was rediculous! And shows exactly how far the P.C. game has gone in America!
LoL...too funny. Me being an black american, I too am guilty of dropping the N bomb a lot. Mainly when I'm talking to friends. I'm pretty sure the kid who complained used the N word himself. But yea its a double standard. If I heard a white person use the word I'd be ready to fight them. But if a black or hispanic person said it I wouldn't think twice about it. Thats just the way it is though. Life isn't always fair....
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
My question is why is there a big debate over why whites folks should be able to say it? Why do some of them want to use it so bad?
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Master Don Juan
LOL quality journalism right there 
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.StrangeButTrue
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ROFL. "I usually place the H at the end to emphasize the 'aaah'."
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
So if a black teacher ever uses the term "white boy", just for once, does he deserve to be suspended or even lose his job, as it's suggested by the black highschool kid for his teacher?
See how ridiculous it is when things are turned around?:cuss:
See how ridiculous it is when things are turned around?:cuss:
Yes, he does.Le Parisien said:
Ridiculously racist.
Unless you're suggesting black on white racism is alright.
We'll never know what actually took place between them. The only way I can see this being acceptable would be if the student called his teacher "nigga" and the teacher replied back sarcastically.