"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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myspace: they read but respond days later?

john_1234

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girls i write messages to do this. i know that they read the message i sent them because it indictates whether or not messages have been read... and then three to four days later, they write back. it's been happening quite often to the point that i'm curious... what's up w/ that?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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reyalp

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you gotta remember that HBs/SHBs get tons of msgs on Myspace. They tend to go through deleting the perverts and old men, and they save the msgs they want to reply to into their "Saved" folder.
Then when they have time they come back and reply to you.


Just do yourself a favor and don't look at your sent items, it will save you some headaches.

just sarge on!
 

Apollo_Jordan

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maybe they are tryin to act cool...like they have stuff to do...others have a bunch of messages they get from guys and are slow in replying due to the sheer numbers...other times they forget they didnt reply!
 

ithero

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Hey man I know that I personally get a large number of messages on there and I'll skim 'em quickly to see if they have anything urgent or immediately necessary to respond to. If not, I'll respond with more though when I have time instead of banging out 10 quick responses that I don't think about.
 

Ace of Flames

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chill dude. hot girls have better things to do then sit on their myspace all day. she'll get to the messages when she can. no worries.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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