"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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myspace: they read but respond days later?

john_1234

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girls i write messages to do this. i know that they read the message i sent them because it indictates whether or not messages have been read... and then three to four days later, they write back. it's been happening quite often to the point that i'm curious... what's up w/ that?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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reyalp

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you gotta remember that HBs/SHBs get tons of msgs on Myspace. They tend to go through deleting the perverts and old men, and they save the msgs they want to reply to into their "Saved" folder.
Then when they have time they come back and reply to you.


Just do yourself a favor and don't look at your sent items, it will save you some headaches.

just sarge on!
 

Apollo_Jordan

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maybe they are tryin to act cool...like they have stuff to do...others have a bunch of messages they get from guys and are slow in replying due to the sheer numbers...other times they forget they didnt reply!
 

ithero

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Hey man I know that I personally get a large number of messages on there and I'll skim 'em quickly to see if they have anything urgent or immediately necessary to respond to. If not, I'll respond with more though when I have time instead of banging out 10 quick responses that I don't think about.
 

Ace of Flames

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chill dude. hot girls have better things to do then sit on their myspace all day. she'll get to the messages when she can. no worries.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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