"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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myspace: they read but respond days later?

john_1234

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girls i write messages to do this. i know that they read the message i sent them because it indictates whether or not messages have been read... and then three to four days later, they write back. it's been happening quite often to the point that i'm curious... what's up w/ that?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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reyalp

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you gotta remember that HBs/SHBs get tons of msgs on Myspace. They tend to go through deleting the perverts and old men, and they save the msgs they want to reply to into their "Saved" folder.
Then when they have time they come back and reply to you.


Just do yourself a favor and don't look at your sent items, it will save you some headaches.

just sarge on!
 

Apollo_Jordan

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maybe they are tryin to act cool...like they have stuff to do...others have a bunch of messages they get from guys and are slow in replying due to the sheer numbers...other times they forget they didnt reply!
 

ithero

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Hey man I know that I personally get a large number of messages on there and I'll skim 'em quickly to see if they have anything urgent or immediately necessary to respond to. If not, I'll respond with more though when I have time instead of banging out 10 quick responses that I don't think about.
 

Ace of Flames

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chill dude. hot girls have better things to do then sit on their myspace all day. she'll get to the messages when she can. no worries.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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