"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cNfny

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i messaged a girl on myspace that had her profile set to private with:

"so whats the deal with your private profile... what do you have to hide?"

her response:
"trying to keep people like you away from me"

my retort:
"Haha you're silly. You must have sensed that i would have only considered you as a friend and you want more, very understandable ;)"

her reply:
"you're a creep"

wtf?? haha. how do you respond to something like that?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Say I Kno I Am Right Lol. Den Say So How U Doin Blah Blah. Basically U Agree Wit Her Den U Move On To Something Else But U Cant Right Away Talk Bout More Den Friends Stuff Cuz She's Already Aware Of U Tryin To Game Her Feel Me
 

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cNfny said:
i messaged a girl on myspace that had her profile set to private with:

"so whats the deal with your private profile... what do you have to hide?"

her response:
"trying to keep people like you away from me"

my retort:
"Haha you're silly. You must have sensed that i would have only considered you as a friend and you want more, very understandable ;)"

her reply:
"you're a creep"

wtf?? haha. how do you respond to something like that?
lol.....shes probably doing it for laughs....prolly some dumb broad
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Haha you're silly. You must have sensed that i would have only considered you as a friend and you want more, very understandable
dude that was lame. I was embarrassed reading that.

I see it so much on this forum. the girl isn't interested, and people try to come back with something slick. it makes you look like an idiot.
 

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Snowman23 said:
dude that was lame. I was embarrassed reading that.

I see it so much on this forum. the girl isn't interested, and people try to come back with something slick. it makes you look like an idiot.
Yeah, pretty much.

Some girls just don't like you, accept it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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cNfny said:
i messaged a girl on myspace that had her profile set to private with:

"so whats the deal with your private profile... what do you have to hide?"

her response:
"trying to keep people like you away from me"

my retort:
"Haha you're silly. You must have sensed that i would have only considered you as a friend and you want more, very understandable ;)"

her reply:
"you're a creep"

wtf?? haha. how do you respond to something like that?
Send her a pic of a giant shlong.
 
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