"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i messaged a girl on myspace that had her profile set to private with:

"so whats the deal with your private profile... what do you have to hide?"

her response:
"trying to keep people like you away from me"

my retort:
"Haha you're silly. You must have sensed that i would have only considered you as a friend and you want more, very understandable ;)"

her reply:
"you're a creep"

wtf?? haha. how do you respond to something like that?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Say I Kno I Am Right Lol. Den Say So How U Doin Blah Blah. Basically U Agree Wit Her Den U Move On To Something Else But U Cant Right Away Talk Bout More Den Friends Stuff Cuz She's Already Aware Of U Tryin To Game Her Feel Me
 
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cNfny said:
i messaged a girl on myspace that had her profile set to private with:

"so whats the deal with your private profile... what do you have to hide?"

her response:
"trying to keep people like you away from me"

my retort:
"Haha you're silly. You must have sensed that i would have only considered you as a friend and you want more, very understandable ;)"

her reply:
"you're a creep"

wtf?? haha. how do you respond to something like that?
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lol.....shes probably doing it for laughs....prolly some dumb broad
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Haha you're silly. You must have sensed that i would have only considered you as a friend and you want more, very understandable
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dude that was lame. I was embarrassed reading that.

I see it so much on this forum. the girl isn't interested, and people try to come back with something slick. it makes you look like an idiot.
 
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Snowman23 said:
dude that was lame. I was embarrassed reading that.

I see it so much on this forum. the girl isn't interested, and people try to come back with something slick. it makes you look like an idiot.
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Yeah, pretty much.

Some girls just don't like you, accept it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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cNfny said:
i messaged a girl on myspace that had her profile set to private with:

"so whats the deal with your private profile... what do you have to hide?"

her response:
"trying to keep people like you away from me"

my retort:
"Haha you're silly. You must have sensed that i would have only considered you as a friend and you want more, very understandable ;)"

her reply:
"you're a creep"

wtf?? haha. how do you respond to something like that?
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Send her a pic of a giant shlong.
 
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