Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Aprenti$playa&pimp said:I've been thinking about ths same thing, only instead of like an exact phrase I was hoping you'd give me ideas on qualities and style (like C&F, for example) Also, any ideas on what points I show make?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Skilla_Staz said:I have a counter in my quote...I don't give a shiz about the info in there, i keep it minimum, I usually just talk, get some #s, hang out, blah blah blah
1. What the hell are you talking about? Counter in your quote?Skilla_Staz said:I have a counter in my quote...I don't give a shiz about the info in there, i keep it minimum, I usually just talk, get some #s, hang out, blah blah blah
ValleyDJing said:1. What the hell are you talking about? Counter in your quote?
2. About time you showed up in the big boys forum. I was diggin your stuff back in the high school deal.![]()
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Aprenti$playa&pimp said:I've been thinking about ths same thing, only instead of like an exact phrase I was hoping you'd give me ideas on qualities and style (like C&F, for example) Also, any ideas on what points I show make?
"I get head in the strangest places, 2 at the same time call it Changing Faces"Cod3r said:"d!ck hard as a motherfvcker, You don't wat ?? Tell that sh!t to another sucka"
or
"Would u like a tissue ? Why ? You gonn need it for the *** in ur nose cuz baby girl u suckin my C0CK"
"We fly high, no lie, and you KNOW this"
baaallllli iiinnnn
U get the idea
-Cod3r