You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Aprenti$playa&pimp said:I've been thinking about ths same thing, only instead of like an exact phrase I was hoping you'd give me ideas on qualities and style (like C&F, for example) Also, any ideas on what points I show make?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Skilla_Staz said:I have a counter in my quote...I don't give a shiz about the info in there, i keep it minimum, I usually just talk, get some #s, hang out, blah blah blah
1. What the hell are you talking about? Counter in your quote?Skilla_Staz said:I have a counter in my quote...I don't give a shiz about the info in there, i keep it minimum, I usually just talk, get some #s, hang out, blah blah blah
ValleyDJing said:1. What the hell are you talking about? Counter in your quote?
2. About time you showed up in the big boys forum. I was diggin your stuff back in the high school deal.![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Aprenti$playa&pimp said:I've been thinking about ths same thing, only instead of like an exact phrase I was hoping you'd give me ideas on qualities and style (like C&F, for example) Also, any ideas on what points I show make?
"I get head in the strangest places, 2 at the same time call it Changing Faces"Cod3r said:"d!ck hard as a motherfvcker, You don't wat ?? Tell that sh!t to another sucka"
or
"Would u like a tissue ? Why ? You gonn need it for the *** in ur nose cuz baby girl u suckin my C0CK"
"We fly high, no lie, and you KNOW this"
baaallllli iiinnnn
U get the idea
-Cod3r