Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Aprenti$playa&pimp said:I've been thinking about ths same thing, only instead of like an exact phrase I was hoping you'd give me ideas on qualities and style (like C&F, for example) Also, any ideas on what points I show make?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Skilla_Staz said:I have a counter in my quote...I don't give a shiz about the info in there, i keep it minimum, I usually just talk, get some #s, hang out, blah blah blah
1. What the hell are you talking about? Counter in your quote?Skilla_Staz said:I have a counter in my quote...I don't give a shiz about the info in there, i keep it minimum, I usually just talk, get some #s, hang out, blah blah blah
ValleyDJing said:1. What the hell are you talking about? Counter in your quote?
2. About time you showed up in the big boys forum. I was diggin your stuff back in the high school deal.![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Aprenti$playa&pimp said:I've been thinking about ths same thing, only instead of like an exact phrase I was hoping you'd give me ideas on qualities and style (like C&F, for example) Also, any ideas on what points I show make?
"I get head in the strangest places, 2 at the same time call it Changing Faces"Cod3r said:"d!ck hard as a motherfvcker, You don't wat ?? Tell that sh!t to another sucka"
or
"Would u like a tissue ? Why ? You gonn need it for the *** in ur nose cuz baby girl u suckin my C0CK"
"We fly high, no lie, and you KNOW this"
baaallllli iiinnnn
U get the idea
-Cod3r