"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Myspace questions guys

frivolousz21

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1. should I just go for women who are single and no kids. or take a look at single moms since I have a son...I dont mind a single mom if she is cool..but I also know I may have to deal with the dad of the other kid..I also know there is a good chance the single mom will still love or care to much about daddy to really be single.


2. my profile is loaded with photos of my son...
3. and it states in my profile I do have a son...but most of it is centered around me....and really needs to be updated.

4. should I take out everthing about my son..and break that **** out later if its serious.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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joekerr31

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you should probably post this in the highschool forum as they know the most about myspace.
 

frivolousz21

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your probably right...

silly me...I thought atleast one guy here over 25 uses myspace.

I also doubt the highschool kids really know how to handle the son dynamic..and messaging single mom dynamic.

but thanks for the tip
 

Bible_Belt

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I dont mind a single mom if she is cool.

Then go for what makes you happy. The 'if she is cool' condition would apply to any woman. Single moms are also easier to lay, imo.
 

drmeathead

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lots of people of all ages use myspace. in fact i think if you arent you are somewhat behind the times. having myspace in 2008 and being mocked for it is like someone calling you a drug dealer for having a cell phone in 2002
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ketostix

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Actually I think older single people , say 25-40, rely more on online dating even myspace than the younger crowd. There's just more young single people on there but they're not relying on it for dating. I personally would not target single mothers because most of them always make it a pain to meet up because of their kid being in the way, but I wouldn't avoid them all together since you have a son.
 

Blackmm

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I wouldn't knock all single mothers, just go for the ones with older children who don't need mommy's attention 24/7, like teenagers who are probably dating anyway. I would avoid chicks with infants and toddlers like the plague. Not only will all their time be taken, but the father of that kid is usually somewhere in the picture since it wasn't that long ago that she was banging him.
 
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