"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Myspace questions guys

frivolousz21

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1. should I just go for women who are single and no kids. or take a look at single moms since I have a son...I dont mind a single mom if she is cool..but I also know I may have to deal with the dad of the other kid..I also know there is a good chance the single mom will still love or care to much about daddy to really be single.


2. my profile is loaded with photos of my son...
3. and it states in my profile I do have a son...but most of it is centered around me....and really needs to be updated.

4. should I take out everthing about my son..and break that **** out later if its serious.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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joekerr31

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you should probably post this in the highschool forum as they know the most about myspace.
 

frivolousz21

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your probably right...

silly me...I thought atleast one guy here over 25 uses myspace.

I also doubt the highschool kids really know how to handle the son dynamic..and messaging single mom dynamic.

but thanks for the tip
 

Bible_Belt

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I dont mind a single mom if she is cool.

Then go for what makes you happy. The 'if she is cool' condition would apply to any woman. Single moms are also easier to lay, imo.
 

drmeathead

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lots of people of all ages use myspace. in fact i think if you arent you are somewhat behind the times. having myspace in 2008 and being mocked for it is like someone calling you a drug dealer for having a cell phone in 2002
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Actually I think older single people , say 25-40, rely more on online dating even myspace than the younger crowd. There's just more young single people on there but they're not relying on it for dating. I personally would not target single mothers because most of them always make it a pain to meet up because of their kid being in the way, but I wouldn't avoid them all together since you have a son.
 

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I wouldn't knock all single mothers, just go for the ones with older children who don't need mommy's attention 24/7, like teenagers who are probably dating anyway. I would avoid chicks with infants and toddlers like the plague. Not only will all their time be taken, but the father of that kid is usually somewhere in the picture since it wasn't that long ago that she was banging him.
 
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