"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Myspace questions guys

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1. should I just go for women who are single and no kids. or take a look at single moms since I have a son...I dont mind a single mom if she is cool..but I also know I may have to deal with the dad of the other kid..I also know there is a good chance the single mom will still love or care to much about daddy to really be single.


2. my profile is loaded with photos of my son...
3. and it states in my profile I do have a son...but most of it is centered around me....and really needs to be updated.

4. should I take out everthing about my son..and break that **** out later if its serious.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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joekerr31

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you should probably post this in the highschool forum as they know the most about myspace.
 
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frivolousz21

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your probably right...

silly me...I thought atleast one guy here over 25 uses myspace.

I also doubt the highschool kids really know how to handle the son dynamic..and messaging single mom dynamic.

but thanks for the tip
 
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I dont mind a single mom if she is cool.

Then go for what makes you happy. The 'if she is cool' condition would apply to any woman. Single moms are also easier to lay, imo.
 
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lots of people of all ages use myspace. in fact i think if you arent you are somewhat behind the times. having myspace in 2008 and being mocked for it is like someone calling you a drug dealer for having a cell phone in 2002
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Actually I think older single people , say 25-40, rely more on online dating even myspace than the younger crowd. There's just more young single people on there but they're not relying on it for dating. I personally would not target single mothers because most of them always make it a pain to meet up because of their kid being in the way, but I wouldn't avoid them all together since you have a son.
 
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I wouldn't knock all single mothers, just go for the ones with older children who don't need mommy's attention 24/7, like teenagers who are probably dating anyway. I would avoid chicks with infants and toddlers like the plague. Not only will all their time be taken, but the father of that kid is usually somewhere in the picture since it wasn't that long ago that she was banging him.
 
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