I started getting some brief messages from someone on myspace a few days ago. One said "you have cute pics" and then later "you are a cute man." I never use myspace for meeting women and the only friends I have on there are people I actually know. She's about 10 years older than me but really cute. I wonder if I should write back and see what I can do. Those were odd messages and I hate the word "cute" but I figure it's worth seeing what happens. So what should I say?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
MySpace Message
- Thread starter Ian19
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I see you have good taste, but I am too young for you.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I bet she won't. Who cares if she does, anyway? You're not going to marry some older chick. There is no point except sex. But every other guy, regardless of age, will be like 'hey baby, ur hot, lets fvck.' Reverse psychology and teasing her for only being after you for a good time (be subtle) are the fastest ways to have sex with her. Myspace girls are even more easily replaced than real life girls, but at the same time, their interest in you will be fleeting. You have to get in her head and mess with her a little to make yourself different from other guys, who btw would worry about losing her just like you are now. Lose that attitude and you get the girl. It'a a paradox, but it works.