I started getting some brief messages from someone on myspace a few days ago. One said "you have cute pics" and then later "you are a cute man." I never use myspace for meeting women and the only friends I have on there are people I actually know. She's about 10 years older than me but really cute. I wonder if I should write back and see what I can do. Those were odd messages and I hate the word "cute" but I figure it's worth seeing what happens. So what should I say?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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- Thread starter Ian19
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I see you have good taste, but I am too young for you.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I bet she won't. Who cares if she does, anyway? You're not going to marry some older chick. There is no point except sex. But every other guy, regardless of age, will be like 'hey baby, ur hot, lets fvck.' Reverse psychology and teasing her for only being after you for a good time (be subtle) are the fastest ways to have sex with her. Myspace girls are even more easily replaced than real life girls, but at the same time, their interest in you will be fleeting. You have to get in her head and mess with her a little to make yourself different from other guys, who btw would worry about losing her just like you are now. Lose that attitude and you get the girl. It'a a paradox, but it works.