I started getting some brief messages from someone on myspace a few days ago. One said "you have cute pics" and then later "you are a cute man." I never use myspace for meeting women and the only friends I have on there are people I actually know. She's about 10 years older than me but really cute. I wonder if I should write back and see what I can do. Those were odd messages and I hate the word "cute" but I figure it's worth seeing what happens. So what should I say?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Master Don Juan
I see you have good taste, but I am too young for you.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I bet she won't. Who cares if she does, anyway? You're not going to marry some older chick. There is no point except sex. But every other guy, regardless of age, will be like 'hey baby, ur hot, lets fvck.' Reverse psychology and teasing her for only being after you for a good time (be subtle) are the fastest ways to have sex with her. Myspace girls are even more easily replaced than real life girls, but at the same time, their interest in you will be fleeting. You have to get in her head and mess with her a little to make yourself different from other guys, who btw would worry about losing her just like you are now. Lose that attitude and you get the girl. It'a a paradox, but it works.