I started getting some brief messages from someone on myspace a few days ago. One said "you have cute pics" and then later "you are a cute man." I never use myspace for meeting women and the only friends I have on there are people I actually know. She's about 10 years older than me but really cute. I wonder if I should write back and see what I can do. Those were odd messages and I hate the word "cute" but I figure it's worth seeing what happens. So what should I say?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
MySpace Message
- Thread starter Ian19
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I see you have good taste, but I am too young for you.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I bet she won't. Who cares if she does, anyway? You're not going to marry some older chick. There is no point except sex. But every other guy, regardless of age, will be like 'hey baby, ur hot, lets fvck.' Reverse psychology and teasing her for only being after you for a good time (be subtle) are the fastest ways to have sex with her. Myspace girls are even more easily replaced than real life girls, but at the same time, their interest in you will be fleeting. You have to get in her head and mess with her a little to make yourself different from other guys, who btw would worry about losing her just like you are now. Lose that attitude and you get the girl. It'a a paradox, but it works.