"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Myspace message - real or fake?

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Centaurion

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I just got the following message from a chick on hi5.com (same sh!t as myspace). I checked out her profile and it looks pretty normal. She even included her email so I could talk to her on msn.

As I'm new to this internet dating crap, my question is, does this sh!t look fake? Is it normal for chicks to message random guys out of the blue?

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Hi Stranger!
My name is Lera, I am 20 years old. I hope you don`t mind my writing, but
I just read your profile few minutes ago and it really caught my
attention, I thought I should write you at least few lines and see if you
are interested to know me also. Maybe we have a lot in common with you?! I
would definitely like to know you better and I hope that we can talk some
more to each other. Would you like to communicate and know me better?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's not normal for attractive women to message guys out of the blue without any hidden agenda. Unless she has some connection to someone with whom you have a connection. If you proceed, make sure you have good anti-virus software running. It could be a copied-and-pasted form message. Those sort of sites are cesspools of viruses and spyware.
 
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It's a form letter sent to you and probably 1000 other guys, most likely to get you to sign up for a webcam site or something similar, thogh possibly to try to scam or infect you. What ever it is, it's not what it seems.

Notice, she doesn't say anything that could specifically identify you or your likes, such as things you might have in common "hey, I noticed you like strudel, me too" or something like that. She called you stranger, instead of your name, or even a screenname. She said your profile caught her attention without ever saying exactly what it was that caught her attention.

Report it as spam.
 
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Yeah its a form letter sent to alot of single male addresses....It happens on faceparty/myspace all the time. Check her profile.....check her website which she will plug endlessly in her profile.....oh look at that.....you can see her naked and ****.....all i need is your credit card details. Delete it.....Its spam.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I already checked out her profile. It looks prtty normal. No spam, no webcam sh!t, no nothing.

I sent her a pretty generic reply back, I'll see what comes out of it.
 
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Sounds like a friend job though. Or pen pals if they live in different country? I msg girls all the time in different countries just to be friends with them and stuff...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Copy and paste the link, change the **** to b i t c h
 
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Dude, anyone who has had a myspace or anything like that for a while knows that those are just stupid spam letters. I usually get one of those a week, i usually just add the girl or whatever. Also, she may send you a comment with something like, "Hey, i saw your profile and i think your cute." But the thing is she sends that to everyone she adds haha
 
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lol... Centaurion why did you come here to ask if it was fake or real and despite so many people telling you it was fake, you decided to send her a message back... :p i mean... well whatever, just take it from me and the poster above me, i get at least one of those a week too, it's fake, 100% sure of it
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Even if it's legit, how desperate must this girl be to message complete strangers on internet websites? Do you really want to hook up with a girl like that?

So your options are:
fake
desperate

It's a lose lose situation.
 
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****s so fake its not even funny... i laugh at all the guys that reply to this msypace spam...go rub one out
 
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If you think she can copy/paste that into someone else's PM's, then it's most likely fake. if there's NOTHING about you in it, then it's fake.

Maybe if she said something like "Yeah I like xx band as well."
 
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