"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Myspace message - real or fake?

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I just got the following message from a chick on hi5.com (same sh!t as myspace). I checked out her profile and it looks pretty normal. She even included her email so I could talk to her on msn.

As I'm new to this internet dating crap, my question is, does this sh!t look fake? Is it normal for chicks to message random guys out of the blue?

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Hi Stranger!
My name is Lera, I am 20 years old. I hope you don`t mind my writing, but
I just read your profile few minutes ago and it really caught my
attention, I thought I should write you at least few lines and see if you
are interested to know me also. Maybe we have a lot in common with you?! I
would definitely like to know you better and I hope that we can talk some
more to each other. Would you like to communicate and know me better?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's not normal for attractive women to message guys out of the blue without any hidden agenda. Unless she has some connection to someone with whom you have a connection. If you proceed, make sure you have good anti-virus software running. It could be a copied-and-pasted form message. Those sort of sites are cesspools of viruses and spyware.
 
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It's a form letter sent to you and probably 1000 other guys, most likely to get you to sign up for a webcam site or something similar, thogh possibly to try to scam or infect you. What ever it is, it's not what it seems.

Notice, she doesn't say anything that could specifically identify you or your likes, such as things you might have in common "hey, I noticed you like strudel, me too" or something like that. She called you stranger, instead of your name, or even a screenname. She said your profile caught her attention without ever saying exactly what it was that caught her attention.

Report it as spam.
 
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Yeah its a form letter sent to alot of single male addresses....It happens on faceparty/myspace all the time. Check her profile.....check her website which she will plug endlessly in her profile.....oh look at that.....you can see her naked and ****.....all i need is your credit card details. Delete it.....Its spam.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I already checked out her profile. It looks prtty normal. No spam, no webcam sh!t, no nothing.

I sent her a pretty generic reply back, I'll see what comes out of it.
 
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Sounds like a friend job though. Or pen pals if they live in different country? I msg girls all the time in different countries just to be friends with them and stuff...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Copy and paste the link, change the **** to b i t c h
 
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Dude, anyone who has had a myspace or anything like that for a while knows that those are just stupid spam letters. I usually get one of those a week, i usually just add the girl or whatever. Also, she may send you a comment with something like, "Hey, i saw your profile and i think your cute." But the thing is she sends that to everyone she adds haha
 
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lol... Centaurion why did you come here to ask if it was fake or real and despite so many people telling you it was fake, you decided to send her a message back... :p i mean... well whatever, just take it from me and the poster above me, i get at least one of those a week too, it's fake, 100% sure of it
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Even if it's legit, how desperate must this girl be to message complete strangers on internet websites? Do you really want to hook up with a girl like that?

So your options are:
fake
desperate

It's a lose lose situation.
 
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****s so fake its not even funny... i laugh at all the guys that reply to this msypace spam...go rub one out
 
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If you think she can copy/paste that into someone else's PM's, then it's most likely fake. if there's NOTHING about you in it, then it's fake.

Maybe if she said something like "Yeah I like xx band as well."
 
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