"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Myspace is too funny!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
Obviously she's up for the first neg-hit, or she would have ignored you. The second one was what pushed her over the line.
She was still responding though, you could have saved yourself, too bad you had to come on here and laugh your shizzled ass off at HER instead of yourself on the third message.
Tough luck, and better luck next time
;o) ;op
learn what the winks mean brother DJ
Knowing how to use ****y and Funny properly may work. Go to the DJ Bible and look it up. Also, what's the point in pursuing somebody who isn't even interested. Move on.
You never know. If you try again, in a few years. She might even have forgotten about you. Then if you learned from your mistakes, you can try again.
Knowing how to use ****y and Funny properly may work. Go to the DJ Bible and look it up. Also, what's the point in pursuing somebody who isn't even interested. Move on.
You never know. If you try again, in a few years. She might even have forgotten about you. Then if you learned from your mistakes, you can try again.
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
LOL
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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BuckwildNYC
Senior Don Juan
Oh yea, and I hope he meant a 10.5 out of 20.