"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Myspace is too funny!
- Thread starter DJsparky
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
Obviously she's up for the first neg-hit, or she would have ignored you. The second one was what pushed her over the line.
She was still responding though, you could have saved yourself, too bad you had to come on here and laugh your shizzled ass off at HER instead of yourself on the third message.
Tough luck, and better luck next time
;o) ;op
learn what the winks mean brother DJ
Knowing how to use ****y and Funny properly may work. Go to the DJ Bible and look it up. Also, what's the point in pursuing somebody who isn't even interested. Move on.
You never know. If you try again, in a few years. She might even have forgotten about you. Then if you learned from your mistakes, you can try again.
Knowing how to use ****y and Funny properly may work. Go to the DJ Bible and look it up. Also, what's the point in pursuing somebody who isn't even interested. Move on.
You never know. If you try again, in a few years. She might even have forgotten about you. Then if you learned from your mistakes, you can try again.
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
LOL
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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BuckwildNYC
Senior Don Juan
Oh yea, and I hope he meant a 10.5 out of 20.