"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have about 68 girls on myspace, about to be 69 ;)

anyway, if these girls are way in tokyo and new york... How do get a good impression with them...

Do you start being ****y and funny or do you try to connect with them.

Does the 3 - 5 day rule apply?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by bbestar
I have about 68 girls on myspace, about to be 69 ;)

anyway, if these girls are way in tokyo and new york... How do get a good impression with them...

Do you start being ****y and funny or do you try to connect with them.

Does the 3 - 5 day rule apply?
thanks
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you're kidding, right? :crackup:

seriously, what's the point? first of all, if you're new...(which it is apparent you are since you're asking about 'how to be c&f' and sh!t like that)...GET OFF MYSPACE OR OTHER INTERNET DATING/MEETING SITES

i've lately been using it a bit more than i should...but i've already got some game down. it's detrimental to use it now...trust me, it will become a crutch...and you don't want that.

go do some cold approaches...i will too
 
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nothing wrong with using myspace.... I met up with a lot of old buds from high school through myspace. Not really the best for meeting women though. Everyonce in awhile you get lucky but most girls on there are big time attention *****s.
 
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If you are using the internet to meet make sure they're local. If they are 1/2 way around the world you're wasting your time.

The only POSSIBLE use I can see of talking to girls online who you won't be meeting is if you are stuck indoors for whatever reason and just need someone to practice having a conversation with. Get you more comfortable with the idea of talking to women. That is if you are a total newb at talking to girls.

Other than that waste of time if you expect anything out of it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Re: Re: myspace girls

Originally posted by GodsGiftToWomen
Should I bytch slap you now or later? Get off your computer and pick up girls in real life!! What's wrong with you? Is your game that bad? The only way to improve is take your @ss out there and get in the field!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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The only positive I can see on internet dating is that at least when you're behind a computer in private, you don't have to worry about friends razzing you for weeks over public failures while attempting to game women.
 
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Get pics immediately and dont waste time with anyone outside your immediate area, set up a meet for coffee at a neutral venue asap.

Otherwise its a big waste of good time.
 
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