"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bbestar

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I have about 68 girls on myspace, about to be 69 ;)

anyway, if these girls are way in tokyo and new york... How do get a good impression with them...

Do you start being ****y and funny or do you try to connect with them.

Does the 3 - 5 day rule apply?
thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by bbestar
I have about 68 girls on myspace, about to be 69 ;)

anyway, if these girls are way in tokyo and new york... How do get a good impression with them...

Do you start being ****y and funny or do you try to connect with them.

Does the 3 - 5 day rule apply?
thanks
you're kidding, right? :crackup:

seriously, what's the point? first of all, if you're new...(which it is apparent you are since you're asking about 'how to be c&f' and sh!t like that)...GET OFF MYSPACE OR OTHER INTERNET DATING/MEETING SITES

i've lately been using it a bit more than i should...but i've already got some game down. it's detrimental to use it now...trust me, it will become a crutch...and you don't want that.

go do some cold approaches...i will too
 
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Paintballguy

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nothing wrong with using myspace.... I met up with a lot of old buds from high school through myspace. Not really the best for meeting women though. Everyonce in awhile you get lucky but most girls on there are big time attention *****s.
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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If you are using the internet to meet make sure they're local. If they are 1/2 way around the world you're wasting your time.

The only POSSIBLE use I can see of talking to girls online who you won't be meeting is if you are stuck indoors for whatever reason and just need someone to practice having a conversation with. Get you more comfortable with the idea of talking to women. That is if you are a total newb at talking to girls.

Other than that waste of time if you expect anything out of it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Re: Re: myspace girls

Originally posted by GodsGiftToWomen
Should I bytch slap you now or later? Get off your computer and pick up girls in real life!! What's wrong with you? Is your game that bad? The only way to improve is take your @ss out there and get in the field!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The only positive I can see on internet dating is that at least when you're behind a computer in private, you don't have to worry about friends razzing you for weeks over public failures while attempting to game women.
 

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Get pics immediately and dont waste time with anyone outside your immediate area, set up a meet for coffee at a neutral venue asap.

Otherwise its a big waste of good time.
 
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