"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bbestar

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I have about 68 girls on myspace, about to be 69 ;)

anyway, if these girls are way in tokyo and new york... How do get a good impression with them...

Do you start being ****y and funny or do you try to connect with them.

Does the 3 - 5 day rule apply?
thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by bbestar
I have about 68 girls on myspace, about to be 69 ;)

anyway, if these girls are way in tokyo and new york... How do get a good impression with them...

Do you start being ****y and funny or do you try to connect with them.

Does the 3 - 5 day rule apply?
thanks
you're kidding, right? :crackup:

seriously, what's the point? first of all, if you're new...(which it is apparent you are since you're asking about 'how to be c&f' and sh!t like that)...GET OFF MYSPACE OR OTHER INTERNET DATING/MEETING SITES

i've lately been using it a bit more than i should...but i've already got some game down. it's detrimental to use it now...trust me, it will become a crutch...and you don't want that.

go do some cold approaches...i will too
 
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Paintballguy

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nothing wrong with using myspace.... I met up with a lot of old buds from high school through myspace. Not really the best for meeting women though. Everyonce in awhile you get lucky but most girls on there are big time attention *****s.
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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If you are using the internet to meet make sure they're local. If they are 1/2 way around the world you're wasting your time.

The only POSSIBLE use I can see of talking to girls online who you won't be meeting is if you are stuck indoors for whatever reason and just need someone to practice having a conversation with. Get you more comfortable with the idea of talking to women. That is if you are a total newb at talking to girls.

Other than that waste of time if you expect anything out of it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Re: Re: myspace girls

Originally posted by GodsGiftToWomen
Should I bytch slap you now or later? Get off your computer and pick up girls in real life!! What's wrong with you? Is your game that bad? The only way to improve is take your @ss out there and get in the field!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The only positive I can see on internet dating is that at least when you're behind a computer in private, you don't have to worry about friends razzing you for weeks over public failures while attempting to game women.
 

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Get pics immediately and dont waste time with anyone outside your immediate area, set up a meet for coffee at a neutral venue asap.

Otherwise its a big waste of good time.
 
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