"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hi all,

I just got a message from a chick on myspace and we started talking a bit over MSN, and we are planning to meet up soon. Now my problem is this...

I haven't gone out on a date in years, so I'm kind of out of shape. How should I approach this? Have any pointers on what we could do? Thanks, and advice is greatly appreciated.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dunno, where do you live? I'd recommend something that helps promote physical contact... if you can find a nice lounge with soft, good music...that would set the atmosphere as well
 
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Dotcomwill...this one's at least an HB8...she's really sexy. Metalchicks are the sexiest around!
 
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Mine's a hot redhead :). I love em' redheads, although I do love blondes more.
 
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I've got on my msn that I got off myspace and she is really hot and I'm in the same situation as I want to meet up but have no idea where to take her and if it goes well I'd like to take her to my formal because it would blow all my mates away.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ihave no clue as of yet...I really don't know where to take her. But she has agreed to smoke a joint with me, but somehow I really don't think that would be a good idea...
 
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You shouldnt "date" really. Tell her you want to "hang out" instead. Take all the formalities of meeting a stranger out of it and get her comfortable....
 
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Those of you that date on myspace..Does the "Here For" section play a role in bringing more traffic to your page. For example if someone has here for networking and another guy has here for dating, serious relationships, networking, etc. does the second guy get more hits on his page from randos?
 
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