"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi all,

I just got a message from a chick on myspace and we started talking a bit over MSN, and we are planning to meet up soon. Now my problem is this...

I haven't gone out on a date in years, so I'm kind of out of shape. How should I approach this? Have any pointers on what we could do? Thanks, and advice is greatly appreciated.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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dunno, where do you live? I'd recommend something that helps promote physical contact... if you can find a nice lounge with soft, good music...that would set the atmosphere as well
 

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Dotcomwill...this one's at least an HB8...she's really sexy. Metalchicks are the sexiest around!
 

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Mine's a hot redhead :). I love em' redheads, although I do love blondes more.
 

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I've got on my msn that I got off myspace and she is really hot and I'm in the same situation as I want to meet up but have no idea where to take her and if it goes well I'd like to take her to my formal because it would blow all my mates away.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ihave no clue as of yet...I really don't know where to take her. But she has agreed to smoke a joint with me, but somehow I really don't think that would be a good idea...
 

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You shouldnt "date" really. Tell her you want to "hang out" instead. Take all the formalities of meeting a stranger out of it and get her comfortable....
 

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Those of you that date on myspace..Does the "Here For" section play a role in bringing more traffic to your page. For example if someone has here for networking and another guy has here for dating, serious relationships, networking, etc. does the second guy get more hits on his page from randos?
 
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