Broham
Senior Don Juan
MySpace is Attention ***** Central and not worth any man's time.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MySpace from the Female Perspective…
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Broham
Senior Don Juan
I'm sure if you put in the time, add 1000+ girls and send out bulletins, you'll get a typical mass marketing response (1-2%) Great. I don't have time to add all those ho's. Kudos to you if you are succeeding. If you have a quicker, easier way, please let us know.
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
I have 35 girls on my profile and rarely put out bulletins. Every month or so, I'll spend a couple hours adding about 75 girls and see what happens. If I added girls more often, I'm sure I'd have more pvzzy. I've been toying with one I met a few months ago. She's 18 and came over last night.
I can't think of a way I would have met her at a bar, mall or anywhere else without coming across as a creepy old man.
I like myspace b/c I can easily pick up younger girls - they're less inhibited when their friends don't know what they're up to. Their friends who don't like older men are the ones that kill the deals for us dudes who like the young'uns.
I can't think of a way I would have met her at a bar, mall or anywhere else without coming across as a creepy old man.
I like myspace b/c I can easily pick up younger girls - they're less inhibited when their friends don't know what they're up to. Their friends who don't like older men are the ones that kill the deals for us dudes who like the young'uns.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
Classic yet very very true!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Broham
Senior Don Juan
I think most girls would find a 31 yr. old dude on the Internet alot creeper than one in person. At least in person, the unknown factor is gone since you are right there in front of them. If your game is so good that you can come across as a non-creepy old dude to 18 y/os, why not game them in real life? Personally, if I was a chick I wouldn't trust guys online, unless there was some connection (they knew a friend/family member).
I can't seem to get anything off of myspace. I'll get some replies but usually when I go for their phone number they get weird...or I'll get their instant messenger, but that's just more work. Maybe my profile's not so great and maybe my pic isn't either, but still it seems like I could spend 12 hours a day on myspace and not get a real meet with anything young and hot. Maybe some percentage of guys are getting something off of there, but thats true in any sarging grounds.
What Eric said makes sense about girls more wiling tol hook up without their friends to CB and if you get them isolated. And I'm an older guy interesting in younger girls, but I can't seem to make it work.
What Eric said makes sense about girls more wiling tol hook up without their friends to CB and if you get them isolated. And I'm an older guy interesting in younger girls, but I can't seem to make it work.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
myspace and hi5 are like big online communities that basically like udate.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
I believe that online sarging and real life sarging are approached 2 different ways (unless you're a great looking guy who takes awesome photos).
Similar to a telemarketer who can not make a sale face to face vs. a realtor who has no idea how to market his product over the phone.
Read some of the material we have here about how to get girls on myspace and follow the instructions.