Broham
Senior Don Juan
MySpace is Attention ***** Central and not worth any man's time.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MySpace from the Female Perspective…
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Broham
Senior Don Juan
I'm sure if you put in the time, add 1000+ girls and send out bulletins, you'll get a typical mass marketing response (1-2%) Great. I don't have time to add all those ho's. Kudos to you if you are succeeding. If you have a quicker, easier way, please let us know.
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
I have 35 girls on my profile and rarely put out bulletins. Every month or so, I'll spend a couple hours adding about 75 girls and see what happens. If I added girls more often, I'm sure I'd have more pvzzy. I've been toying with one I met a few months ago. She's 18 and came over last night.
I can't think of a way I would have met her at a bar, mall or anywhere else without coming across as a creepy old man.
I like myspace b/c I can easily pick up younger girls - they're less inhibited when their friends don't know what they're up to. Their friends who don't like older men are the ones that kill the deals for us dudes who like the young'uns.
I can't think of a way I would have met her at a bar, mall or anywhere else without coming across as a creepy old man.
I like myspace b/c I can easily pick up younger girls - they're less inhibited when their friends don't know what they're up to. Their friends who don't like older men are the ones that kill the deals for us dudes who like the young'uns.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
Classic yet very very true!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Broham
Senior Don Juan
I think most girls would find a 31 yr. old dude on the Internet alot creeper than one in person. At least in person, the unknown factor is gone since you are right there in front of them. If your game is so good that you can come across as a non-creepy old dude to 18 y/os, why not game them in real life? Personally, if I was a chick I wouldn't trust guys online, unless there was some connection (they knew a friend/family member).
I can't seem to get anything off of myspace. I'll get some replies but usually when I go for their phone number they get weird...or I'll get their instant messenger, but that's just more work. Maybe my profile's not so great and maybe my pic isn't either, but still it seems like I could spend 12 hours a day on myspace and not get a real meet with anything young and hot. Maybe some percentage of guys are getting something off of there, but thats true in any sarging grounds.
What Eric said makes sense about girls more wiling tol hook up without their friends to CB and if you get them isolated. And I'm an older guy interesting in younger girls, but I can't seem to make it work.
What Eric said makes sense about girls more wiling tol hook up without their friends to CB and if you get them isolated. And I'm an older guy interesting in younger girls, but I can't seem to make it work.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
myspace and hi5 are like big online communities that basically like udate.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
I believe that online sarging and real life sarging are approached 2 different ways (unless you're a great looking guy who takes awesome photos).
Similar to a telemarketer who can not make a sale face to face vs. a realtor who has no idea how to market his product over the phone.
Read some of the material we have here about how to get girls on myspace and follow the instructions.