Broham
Senior Don Juan
MySpace is Attention ***** Central and not worth any man's time.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
MySpace from the Female Perspective…
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Broham
Senior Don Juan
I'm sure if you put in the time, add 1000+ girls and send out bulletins, you'll get a typical mass marketing response (1-2%) Great. I don't have time to add all those ho's. Kudos to you if you are succeeding. If you have a quicker, easier way, please let us know.
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
I have 35 girls on my profile and rarely put out bulletins. Every month or so, I'll spend a couple hours adding about 75 girls and see what happens. If I added girls more often, I'm sure I'd have more pvzzy. I've been toying with one I met a few months ago. She's 18 and came over last night.
I can't think of a way I would have met her at a bar, mall or anywhere else without coming across as a creepy old man.
I like myspace b/c I can easily pick up younger girls - they're less inhibited when their friends don't know what they're up to. Their friends who don't like older men are the ones that kill the deals for us dudes who like the young'uns.
I can't think of a way I would have met her at a bar, mall or anywhere else without coming across as a creepy old man.
I like myspace b/c I can easily pick up younger girls - they're less inhibited when their friends don't know what they're up to. Their friends who don't like older men are the ones that kill the deals for us dudes who like the young'uns.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
Classic yet very very true!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Broham
Senior Don Juan
I think most girls would find a 31 yr. old dude on the Internet alot creeper than one in person. At least in person, the unknown factor is gone since you are right there in front of them. If your game is so good that you can come across as a non-creepy old dude to 18 y/os, why not game them in real life? Personally, if I was a chick I wouldn't trust guys online, unless there was some connection (they knew a friend/family member).
I can't seem to get anything off of myspace. I'll get some replies but usually when I go for their phone number they get weird...or I'll get their instant messenger, but that's just more work. Maybe my profile's not so great and maybe my pic isn't either, but still it seems like I could spend 12 hours a day on myspace and not get a real meet with anything young and hot. Maybe some percentage of guys are getting something off of there, but thats true in any sarging grounds.
What Eric said makes sense about girls more wiling tol hook up without their friends to CB and if you get them isolated. And I'm an older guy interesting in younger girls, but I can't seem to make it work.
What Eric said makes sense about girls more wiling tol hook up without their friends to CB and if you get them isolated. And I'm an older guy interesting in younger girls, but I can't seem to make it work.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
myspace and hi5 are like big online communities that basically like udate.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
I believe that online sarging and real life sarging are approached 2 different ways (unless you're a great looking guy who takes awesome photos).
Similar to a telemarketer who can not make a sale face to face vs. a realtor who has no idea how to market his product over the phone.
Read some of the material we have here about how to get girls on myspace and follow the instructions.